~大部分男生都是这样失去女朋友的~

This post quite lengthy..i saw it from Facebook...cant stop of laughing...the way it describes...
here you are~~

追求的时候当人家是宝，永远保持着最好的一面...

刚到手的时候疼人家到骨子里去，每天给她打十几个电话，发几十条信息，她说什么你 都铭记在心， 想吃什么、想买什么、想去哪里你都会尽全力去满足，温柔体贴无微不至，巴不得二十四个小时都能跟她呆在一起；一开始总是包容的，就算她的生活习惯与你不同 也会努力的调试配合，一切一切都是美好的...

久了，腻了！每天别说几十个电话，就连1个电话都懒得打，打电话时只说具体情况，把那些觉得无关要紧的“情趣”话都省了；信息就更不用说了，她发10条你回有一半你就觉得你回的已经够多了，就连她打电话给你你都觉得她啰嗦！

你不会再为她想吃早点而早早起床，你不会再为她排队买她想要东西，你不会专门请假带她去她想去的地方，你会觉得她什么事都依赖着你，让你觉得她麻烦事特多！

接着你会发现她的缺点越来越多，她的优点快被她的缺点掩盖，你快忍无可忍！

最后，厌了！潇洒的用“分手吧！”一句简单的言语结束了复杂的感情；或耗着等着，直到有一天她受不了忽冷忽热或若即若离的态度自己选择离开，你还可以说是她自己离你而去，你没有负心...

男人，你记不记得你曾经说过：“我永远都会对你这么好，一辈子都这样爱着你宠着你！”

不是她麻烦事特多，是你一开始就说得做得太到位，才会让她依赖上你！

你记不记得你曾经说过：“不管多晚，睡不着都可以打电话给我，我的手机24小时都为你开机！”

那你又嫌她不体贴，白天工作的时候打电话打扰到你，辛苦了一天晚上要睡觉了她还缠着你不肯挂线。

是谁让她养成何时何地想打电话给你就打电话给你的习惯？

她无理取闹那是因为从某一个时间段你的态度变了，你开始冷落她了；让她觉得没了安全感，由使她起疑心！不是她不信任你，不给你空间，而是她爱你，在乎你，用尽所有时间去关心你，你的生活细微改变都牵扯着她的情绪！

她脾气不好那是因为她有很多时候知道了很多事情，但你不说，她都选择沉默，在一直沉默；积压到一定的时间她们就会爆发心中的所有怨气；要知道，这一些都不是她脾气不好，是你不够细心发觉，她们是一直积压下来的！

她不再跟以前一样动人当初是谁说不喜欢她每天变化多端像只花蝴蝶，是谁说喜欢她素颜的清纯模样？

虽说喜新厌旧是人性，除了毛主席跟古董以外，什么东西看久了都会审美疲劳；但她不是东西，她是个活生生有着感情的人！

你不再给她答案，不再给她承诺，不希望你以后做不到让这些答案跟承诺变成谎言那你以前又给她那么多答案，给她那么多承诺，现在为自己铺好后路可以前承诺过的叫她怎么忘记？

女人不怕诺言没实现，怕的是你承诺了又不去实现，最后实不实现是另一个问题！

你忙，你没时间没精力讨好她，你不知道她现在在想什么？

那你以前不忙吗？你以前是不是就把全部时间用来讨好她而不用工作？

那你以前怎么都那么细心观察她在想什么？

你觉得你们不配，你不想她再浪费感情在这段没结果的爱情上

那你一开始追她干嘛？做实验啊？她都已经浪费这么多感情了，你当感情是水龙头啊，说开就开说关就关！

对，这一切都是你给自己找的借口！

别以为换个女朋友就可以永远摆脱那种感情暗淡时期，因为不久的将来你还是得回到这种时光，下个女朋友也是，下下个女朋友也是，下下下个女朋友也是，有种你一辈子不谈恋爱不结婚...

男人们，看完了回想一下你们的那段美好时光，趁现在没有人偷偷想想是不是你们给自己找借口了？

那个以前深爱的女人现在就那么不值得你爱了么？别说你瞎了狗眼以前才会跟她在一起，因为你没瞎，也请不要侮辱到狗！

后悔分手的赶快努力从新追回来，以后用心经营着共有的感情！

其实女人要的很简单，只想要一个爱自己男人就够了...

想要分手的考虑清楚，并不是每段感情都可以挽回的！

考虑太久也不行，因为她们可以忍耐你冷落她一段时间，但不会一辈子傻下去；她们再怎么傻，也会给自己一个 时间段，去忍受你的冷落，去相信你的爱；但时间一到，她们会毫不犹豫的离开，到那时再多的甜言蜜语都没有用了，因为这世界上没有谁离开谁就活不了！

恋爱中的，好好珍惜现在那个愿意照顾你，体谅你，愿意陪你承担风雨的傻女人吧！

过了这个村，或许就没这个店了...

到时间结婚的就结婚吧，不要再拖拖拉拉婆婆妈妈；结婚证一领就像买了保险，至少心里都有底了...

爱情，就像煮粥！滚烫的时候加点配料它就是够火候又有滋有味的；等到忘记关火煮焦了的时候，你闻都不想闻它甚至你连锅都想把它扔了...

看好你的火吧..

Sekinchan and Kuala Selangor Survey Trip

this trip lasts almost 1 month...now only i feels to upload some picture of it..maybe because of today we will go the trip officially^^
here~~share some photos~~~feels nice...these photos frm Ken's~

THE bridge...we still can walk across it...although it looks old~=X

The day starts to dark~
Its My legs...FAT!!!
Sunset at Kuala Selangor...Not bad right?

Hope today will be a sunny day..so they can have a nice shooting day~~~

~Friends~

阿拉伯传说中有两个朋友在沙漠中旅行，

在旅途中的某点他们吵架了，

其中一个还给了另一个一记耳光。

被打的觉得受辱，一言不语，

在沙子上写下：

今天我的好朋友打了我一巴掌

他们继续往前走，到了沃野，决定停下。

被打巴掌的那位差点淹死，幸好被朋友救起来了。

被救起后，他拿了一把小剑在石头上刻了：

今天我的好朋友救了我一命

一旁朋友好奇地问：

为何我打了你，你要写在沙子上，

而现在要刻在石头上呢？

朋友笑一笑回答说：

当被一个朋友伤害时，

要写在易忘的地方，

风会负责抹去它；

相反的如果被帮助，

我们要把它刻在心灵深处，

任何风都不能抹灭它。

朋友的相处，伤害往往是无心的，帮助却是真心的。

忘记那些无心的伤害，铭记那些对你的帮助，

你会发现这世上有很多真心的朋友。

My Year two sem 2

this is the second week.tutorials come.but i dunknw how to do.how.dontknow.feels messy.dont know what to do.get a bad news.grandma at hospital.hope nt serious.need to be observed.
maybe i think too much.this is me.oh no.how can i change? Dont know also.forget it?cant.
Maybe i am greedy.bt..agree to Ken.he said:people should keep improve...i will try...
dont know emo for wat.but suddenly.found a descriptive word to describe my feelings now. If i can write my feelings in a song.it must be a sad song? Am i a sad people?? is it my life so down?so dark? i dont think so. I always have a happy family and good friends around me...and yet.why i feels so down? Good things always happened to me.Why i still sad? Why i keep feels that i am useless? Oh no~ am i so useless? I wish to be someone who can brings happiness to whose i care...I did it? Dont know.....Maybe shouldnt think this anymore
Grateful to the senior who helped.Thanks~
share a picture here,may it like this.there is always hope after the clouds...

《钟无艳》

haha...today...sudden think to write something.addicted to some chinese song recently.because i watched 钟无艳~hoho~this is the new taiwanese drama...show u the drama photo here~

the main characters: 明道、杨谨华...but..the one i like arent anyone of them...although both of them is very leng zai and leng lui~the one i keep watching is this one~~吴慷仁~~
cute rite? haha~~~bt i am not really watching the drama..keep drag.because not really like love story.haha...by the way...found the drama songs are really nice..sang by Bii~ a korean-taiwanese singer....listened to his 3 songs.not bad for me^^
here is the songs:
1.一天天
2. 到不了的幸福
3.转身之后

Blessings

its a new semester.new subjects.new lecturers.
but there is something keep constant. I wish to change it.anyhow.i didnt do anythg. I think i will just forget it. as i always did. it's ok. why should i care while others is ignored. this is hard for me to stop, but i will do my best to avoid.
Time passed, human grows older. our machine worn out. we become weaker and weaker. and the end. we die. this is the same ending for everyone of us. just realised i scared of Death. funny ya?
accompany my grandma to see Dr. saw there is many patients who suffered from stroke. only half of their bodies can move. it is horrible. and...suddenly.my grandma's condition becomes worst. thought her recovered already. dont know what happen to her. refused to go to see Dr. that day saw her fall down. she cant wake up by herself.accompanied her a long while for her to wake up herself. finally is me and mum helped her to wake up. very scare of this. it makes me reminded of my grandpa. Oh God, please bless her.

After A Long While

Although i always think of it,
feels like to see it,
but i always give my self a lot of reasons to ignore it,
this is so called laziness?
i think so.
Almost three months i abandoned it,
finally,
i am here again,
to update it.
i called it Kim's Garden.
i think it is my garden, my feelings grow become plants in this space, i fertilized them with my words. This is what my garden looks like now. A quiet space for me to express myself.To be myself.
sometimes.or i should say i wont tell my feelings and thought to anyone. Maybe i just dont want people to know me. or i just feels that it is a waste to tell people? unknown answer.
anyway.
dont know why i wrote this too. my plan is to write about my holidays.and yet.this is what i wrote.
i think i will write my holidays on next time. if i still remember.
thaTS all.waiting to yamcha^^